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Yes, he may be nervous and intimidated by you because he has feelings and is afraid of revealing too much too soon. This is a possibility, but generally, if he wants to invest in a serious relationship, he’ll want to learn as much as possible about you and will seek to make contact without waiting for you. If you have to initiate all the conversations and make all the effort, it’s a clear sign that he’s not looking to invest in a romantic relationship with you.
2- He flirts with other women in front of you:
If a man, whether a friend or a date, hasn’t given up his flirtatious behavior with other women, it’s likely that he’s not as invested in the relationship as you are or that he simply sees you as a friend. He may be trying to make you jealous, but this is more of a feminine behavior. A man who wants to commit and build a lasting romantic relationship with you will tend to focus his attention on what he desires, which is you.
3- He doesn’t seem to care about you when you flirt with other men:
In retaliation for his flirtatious behavior, you start flirting with other men, and he doesn’t even seem to mind. He may be comfortable with your relationship and trust you, but more likely, he doesn’t care about what you’re doing because he doesn’t want your relationship to get serious.
Jealousy is one of the most human emotions. You feel jealous when you think you’re going to lose a relationship you really care about.
4- He never asks you out:
If every meeting is your idea and he doesn’t offer any suggestions for going out or even just watching TV together on a Saturday night, it’s because he’s not invested enough in the relationship. I suggest you put the rule of 3 into practice. After 3 proposals, if this man doesn’t offer anything afterward, if he doesn’t approach you, it’s because he’s not romantically interested in you. I personally use this rule in reverse to know if a woman is interested in me. Lack of reciprocity is often a clear sign that a person isn’t interested in you.
5- You feel like he is not listening to you:
When you’re together, which isn’t often, you feel like you’re on another planet or like his attention isn’t focused on you. Is he listening? Who knows! If you feel like he’s not, you’re probably right. It’s best to find someone else if you feel like he’s not listening to you.
6- He doesn’t introduce you to his friends:
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